If you have a thing for Asian women and find them attractive and fetching, there are ways to go about dating one. We will not like to generalize on the base of race, yet there are still things about Asian women and kind of men they normally prefer which set them somewhat apart from women in the west.
Being aware of this will stand you a better chance of successfully dating an Asian woman. So, here are a few tips and suggestions how you can go about dating an Asian woman.
The first thing is no matter whether you are interested in a Filipina or a Chinese or Korean girl and although you may be specifically interested in her because she is Asian, you should never give an impression early in the relationship that this is so. Because if you do that, there is every chance that you will be misinterpreted.
The woman may come to feel that you are only into her because of her race and this is certainly going to put her off.
Also, there is the thing of ‘yellow fever’ that you need to take into account. This refers to a fetish of some western men for Asian girls. So, be on your guard. You do not need to go allout right from the word go.
Also, if you are not certain of her nationality, do not try to guess. If you are wrong, it will make you seem ignorant. But even if you are right, it may seem like you are boasting of your knowledge about Asia, or even Asian women. Both ways, it won’t go down well with the woman.
It is always a better approach to politely ask her where her parents are from. This way you get your answer and the woman will also feel that you are genuinely interested in her.
Again, this might be a somewhat broad generalization, but it is still valid that Asian women prefer masculine men– the protector and the provider type– more than western women.
Asian women living in the west often feel a slight sense of insecurity because of living in a foreign country and foreign culture and will like to have a partner who will make them feel more at home in the place.
So, if you project masculinity and confidence rather than acting clingy, you will have a better chance of success. Maintain an easy and relaxed attitude and make her feel that you care.
Being knowledgeable about your own place or city always makes a good impression on an Asian woman. Even if she was born and brought up in the same city, she will like it if you take her around to some interesting places in the city.
After all, you are an insider here and she must feel that being with you, she will become more knowledgeable and will gain a stronger foothold in the culture of the place.
Etiquette is another important thing. Asian women generally like guys who show proper manners such as pulling out her chair, assisting her in removing her coat, etc. No matter how old-fashioned, these chivalrous gestures and the charm associated therein always go down well with women.
These are just a few of the ways how you can go about dating a woman from Asia. The crucial thing is to play it cool and relaxed and being yourself and you will have all the chance of success.